Some questions, if you would like to answer.



QUESTION (In Random Order)

Is Love a triumph of imagination over intelligence? Click to answer
Why do you think patriotism is not an obsolete emotion?
Why is dominating others seen as leadership?
Hindu Mythology: What is the compass to find direction of ‘Dharma’?

How do you decide where is God in given situation?


Is Bliss dependent on our choices we make? Is a 'Supreme Joy of Being' a state that can be achieved through actions?

Hindu Mythology:What does 'Ananda' mean to you?

Hindu Mythology - What is the hierarchical structure of terms - prabhu, bhawgwan, eashwar, parmatma, jagdish, maha-prabhu, devta, dev, devta, avtar, parmeshwar etc

Is it possible to cancel your karmas?
Hindu Mythology - What do 10 heads of ravana stand for?

On what parameters do you evaluate major decisions of your life? Or what weight-age do you give to emotional, physical, spiritual or economic parameters before making a decision?

How can science become a vehicle of spiritualism?

Money flew away, relatives flew away, Reputation and Good will was burned down, Job flew away, what do I do next?


Can Interactive story telling through virtual machines, a 'e-satsang' be a future of religion?


I am not made for struggles and fights. Naturally dreamy and restful. A born idealist, can only live in world of dreams, world only disturbs my vision and makes me unhappy. What should I do?


I have no words, no poetry to express my love and affection towards you. What should I do?

Is there a relation between Creativity & Intelligence? If so, what is it? If no, why not?

Is there always an “Uddeshya” behind every “event” or “action”? Is there always a cause and objective behind every happening in life? If there always an intention behind all karmas? If so, then how can one ever get Mukti? If you are working for a particular objective or result or cause, then how am I “mukt” from actions/results?


Why do they say that we take all actions because of self interest or a hidden motive. Is all action of the world due to selfishness and egotism only? Was mother Teresa, Gandhi Egoist or selfish?


Hindu Mythology: In Mahabharata, who was the greatest Dhanurdhar: Eklavya? Arjun or Karna? Can you put your hand on your heart and say that Krishna did “Nyaya” or Justice with the Karna? If yes, why, if not why?


To Laugh and To Cry – Are these necessities of humans (like Air, Water) or are these inventions (Aavishkaar) of mind?


A noble Sadhu gave me “Prasad”, I gave it to my brother who did not eat it, infact he throws it away. Will I get “Paap” for disrespecting the “Prasad”? Am I guilty?


I borrowed 10 Rs from my friend and gave it to a Sadhu. Am I a “Paapi” if I do not return the money? Siya Ram me sab jag jaani, Why should I feel guilty?


By Creation or Creativity we feel brings Ananda, Joy and Peace. How come women who produce God’s best creation (mankind) never have Ananda or Shanti?

I am unable to win over “Kaam”, inspite of all “Hari-naam”. What to do? Please advise

Which is the most important kala in todays world? Krishna was master of 16 “Kalas”. What are these? Which are the ones that were not exhibited by Rama?

How can “Aadhyatmic Pragati” (Spiritual Progress) be measured?
Hindu Mythology: “Vidur got chitta-bhram due to events of mahabharata”. Could you please differentiate Man Bhram, Buddhi Bhram, Chitta Bhram with examples?
Soldier, bad lawyer, judge and butcher. Are they not sinners just because its part of their job?

How can I get rid of fear? I am so much fear in myself.

031 Why am I a coward because I am quiet? I am a quiet person who asses risk to avoid conflicts, shouting a loud, detests danger through his feeble fearful way, Is that a psychological problem or natural?
032 Have you ever had a dream of a family person who is no more in this world? Is that okay? Or is there a hidden message in that? Any dream interpreters?
033 "Headless Chicken?" Senseless thinking, thoughtless action? I ask you, who decides what is right?
034 Why are people becoming slaves of habits like machines? Robotic life, home-office-home...

What do you think about granting death to people with terminal diseases? They are using the term “Assisted Suicides”? What do you think about abortion?


When I see a dead cow, I feel sad. That cow’s calf standing next to the dead body of mother cow also seems sad and dejected. However, crows and eagles around find pleasure and they see it as fresh food.


What according to you is the biggest evidence of God? This blind insensitive visitors of religious places? This same crowd did not believed in mobile, TV and airplane years ago?


Have you ever experienced or observed the that state of mind dependent upon state of physical body? Is state of physical body, dependent upon state of Mind? Is there really a connection or its just a myth?


Which one is more dangerous to be? “Paagal” or “Moorkh”? Are we all “Prabhu Premi” or God lovers, “Paagal” or “Moorkh”?


If an animal gives milk like cow, looks like cow, has a tail likes cow, speaks like a cow. Is it compulsory that the animal is cow?


Television has become the Pandit of Modern World. It decides the mental state of people, what they buy, what they see how they think, clothes. TV dictate their thinking and actions. Serial of “Naatak” and “Nautanki” are deciding future of mankind. Under these circumstances what is the responsibility of good people?


Who will change the world? The Youth or old people? What are we doing, what should we continue to do, to invite more young people to humanity to create a better world?

043 It was justice of majority that crucified Jesus Christ, then why should democracy or following what is in interest of most of the people the social norm?
044 To copy others is kill ourselves, then why do we all pray to become like Jesus, Guru Nanak, Mohammad, Ram and Krishna?
045 Where should be my first responsibility? Towards myself, towards my family, towards my Guru, Towards my mother, Towards my father, towards my country, Towards God, Towards my religious book, towards society or towards humanity?
046 Should not religion inspire, support and encourage the unthinkable in our minds? Society through economics, political and social system has devised rules, religious books, constitution so that we behave like everyone else?
047 Are Good people made only for temples and churches? Only for worshiping? Singing Carols? Why should they not take leadership and fight against social evils? Mistakes of the society? Mistakes of the Government? What is alternative of Good Government? Bad Government! If good people do not take lead, bad people will! System is so corrupt that anyone who tries to lead is called bad and if you not bad and corrupt you should not be allowed to lead. Why are good people always hesitant to take leadership?
048 Is all action of the world due to selfishness and egotism only? Was mother Teresa, Gandhi Egoist?
049 How do I know that what I am thinking or the decision that I have made is that of a free mind and not a biased one? How do I know that my mind is not living in the prison of my belief system?
050 Bankim Chandra Chaterjee said, “Cow is not anyone’s property. However, whosoever drinks cows milk, belongs to the cow.” Is this quote universal in application? To all circumstances and conditions?
051 The world created from “Om” has reached a state of “Nuclear Bomb” but still Krishna is not awaken? Why? Are you sure worshiping these paper books or singing praise of God or clapping in temples or chanting holy scriptures is sufficient to awaken God and bring peace in human civilization?
052 Hindu Mythology: In Mahabharata, What do you think about those innocent people killed in Lakshagraha? How can one justify that innocent murder?
053 What is the simple step by step method to win over “Kamana” (Desire) and “Kaam”(Action)?
054 Hindu Mythology: Krishna was master of 16 “Kalas” (Arts). Do you know what were these name and details of these Kalas?
055 Is it not true that all achievement of human-kind (science) is obtained by fighting against nature/God. Man could not fly or swim, he made airplanes, ships, biological cloning and medicines to fight nature’s wish. If this is correct, then why are you teaching us to live our life in accordance with Nature and/or God? I am confused.
056 Hindu Mythology: Which is the biggest God if we compare Rama, Krishna and Shiva? Rama is brahma, Shiva is para-brahma. Is Krishna Brahma? If yes why? If no why not?
057 Whenever I am online, I am on Internet I feel more connected to life, to ideas, to growth, I feel more strength for life. Virtual seems to be more comforting to my mind than real people. Why do they call it wrong? Is it really a stupid and meaningless addiction?
058 They say, accept situations and people as they are - How do you do that? If a person comes a home for dacoity, would you accept things as they are and let him do dacoity/loot?
059 Important: Is it possible to en-cash good karma that you have done? I mean blessings, help/charity that you have done secretly to help you in the time of your need. Can one en-cash the good karmas?
060 More people you meet in a day, more you are punched, kicked deviated, tossed and turned like a football by their objectives, opinions, emotions and moods. How does one keep himself mentally unperturbed to his complete his agenda/check list for the day?
061 Is anyone reading my questions? Please let me know that if you are :)
062 I am 34, I do not feel 34, I feel as if it was just yesterday that I was in school. My body in mirror has changed, way people deal with me is changed but nothing is changed inside... Has my mind stopped growing? Is there someone inside us who does not change or does not want to change? What is this conflict about who I am?
063 No question is coming to my mind today.... Should I borrow one?
064 How can Aadhyatmic Pragati” or Spiritual Progress can be measured? What are the indications of a true believer? or a noble person?
065 What is the biggest proof that God exists? And why doesn’t God stops all the pain & evil?
066 Which thinking is quickest – emotional, logical, ethical/value based, or spiritual?
067 Why do we worship ourselves so much?
068 Please differentiate between Pandit, Brahman, Sadhu, Bhakt and Gyani?
069 Is there a difference between a life of a street dog and a Sadhu?
070 Which is the deeper desire of a man – To seek happiness? Or to seek knowledge or to find peace or to find God? And Why?
071 Even illiterate people of India are desperate to send their children to English medium schools, how would Hindi, our mother tongue survive then? Are we not making our country slave to English? Under these circumstances what are the responsibilities of a believer?
072 Humans was fighting wars 5000 years ago, in time of Lord Ram, Lord Krishna, then first world war, second world war, even today we are fighting everywhere in the world? Inspite of all material and scientific success? Has there been any evolution of human brain at all?
073 Why should I trust old books, epics? Why should I believe that human brain today is less intelligent than the human brain that existing 500 years ago? Am I less intelligent than my great grand parents, who did not know what is television, car, Internet was?
074 When all land, trees, water and other resources has been taken over by Government or private companies for profit, how in under these circumstances a person can talk of going for vanprastha?
075 How in modern world of MTV, News, Fast Food and Entertainment one can achieve objectives of vairagya?
076 My life seems to be very unhappy, empty and meaningless. What's the first thing I should do?
077 I think spreading positive energy, strength of life, growth of life is more important than spreading religious or spiritual jnana/knowledge... What do you think?
078 I am my own worst enemy. I wish I was someone else!
079 What are expectations and responsibilities of of the generation from its previous generations?
080 What are the essential qualities and attributes of a good person?
081 Tilak said, “Swadeenta or Svaraj mera janam sidhh adhikaar hai”, that is self rule is my birth right. Is this true for man as well as woman? Is it true for all spheres of life Dharma, Artha, Kaama and Moksha?
082 Which is the biggest Dharma: Ahimsa (Non-Violence), Satya (Truth), Rashtra (Country), Prem(Love), or Karuna (Compassion) ?
083 Is it really possible to change faith without changing God? From one religion to other, conversion? Any converts care to reply?
084 People today have at least 3 idols in their home temples. If hanuman ji is not working they goto Sai baba, then to shivji and then to mataji. Is it bad worship more than one God form?
085 Why does India always kill great people? Be it Gandhi, Meera or Sita. Why? Why should India be forgiven for killing these wonderful people?
086 What is time? How would you define time?
087 People have made cartoons out of Lord Hanuman and Lord Ganesh, just like Superman and Spider-man. When children who watch these will grow up, they will say, “Look our parents and grandparents have made temples of cartoon characters, they are so foolish! ” Is making animations bad?
088 Why are you proud of India? Just Because our parents and grand parents were born here?
089 I loves and respects rudraksha, rosary, tulsi and flute more than cars with red signals and people with weapons. Is that a dangerous thing to do?
090 What is Money? To whom does it belong? Money belongs to the person who earned? Money belongs to the society? (Because he earned it from there) Or Money belongs to God, as everything is God’s creation? Or Money itself is God?
091 Why do we touch feet of elders?

Why do Hindus offer coconut to gods?

093 Who is a Hindu?
094 Do we really need God? Will world be better without God and Religion?
095 What are our 3 main responsibilities towards our seniors in society?
096 Why are there 108 beads in a rosary?
097 Why should one get married?
098 I don't know why there are only 7 days in a week?
099 What is the secret of life?
100 What is the relationship between Destiny, God and Our Choices?
101 How to be a good son?
102 How far is it correct to live by religious books? By sticking to them are we not limiting the growth of humanity?
103 Why are people becoming so intolerant?
104 What are 3 things one must do before the age of 40?
105 Does it really pays to be good? I see evil succeeding all around?
106 Can science make it possible for us to meet out past or future?
107 What evaluation parameters can qualify an event as Grace of God?
108 What is a prayer? What is better Group prayers or individual prayer?
109 What is the biggest surprise of life?
110 One of the favorite quotes of India is... "Everything happens for good. Everything, whatever it is, however it is, is perfect the way it is..." Really?
111 Interacting with new people, learning new things make me restless and miserable with lot of inertia... How should one handle that?
112 Someone told me, Only purpose Renunciation and Charity serves is ego boosting...all spiritual benefits are utter nonsense..Is that right?
113 How does one know that this aching feeling is a cry of my soul and not a feeble voice of a perturbed mind?
114 Is it really possible to be non-violent through actions, mind and speech or is it all a philosophical non-sense? Consider this, your son is playing in the garden and a snake comes from nearby place and is about to bite your son. If you do not attack the snake it will most likely bite your son. Would you not attack the snake? What happened to your ahimsa? How come violence all of a suddenly appears appropriate?
115 Skip
116 Purposely not written.
117 Ignore.
119 Do you think Shanti or Ananda that is dependent upon others is slavery?
120 Are large multi-national companies threat to democracy?
121 For someone who wants to be in a loving relationship, I have waited too long for one.... Noone girl asked me on a date till now...I guess I should plant my own garden while waiting...has anyone something done that?
122 How should one behave with people who have hurt us in past? I may never forget or forgive them but how does one interacts/deal with them so that they do not aggravate the pain in heart further?
123 Someone told me "You think too much".. Do I?
124 How do you find answers to big decisions/questions of life?
125 When a Man leaves house and becomes Prime-Minister or a Buddha, Society worships him, But what if a woman, leaves her house and children for her aspirations and goals, Will society accept that? reward that?
126 Does Divine Justice really exist? Or is it a creation of an empty mind?

Why it has become a curse, or disadvantageous to be good looking or intelligent or creative or successful or rich person in our society?

128 Why should I be hopeful of humanity?
129 How can a beggar on street be more spiritual, more religious and bestow meaning blessings to donors? can a jobless, money-less, loveless, powerless person be spiritual?
130 Behtar Samaj ki staphna prayas se hogi ya keval prarthana se? 
131 Kya Dil Nariyal ke tarah fodne ke liye hai?

Are Mountains, Rivers are evidence of God? Is creativity, imagination NOT evidence of God? If not why?  I think only creative and artistic people design future through Art and Literature, everyone else follows. They are more blessed then non-artists.


What is the purpose of singing bhagwat-katha or Ramkatha? You want people to become Rama? You want people to become Hanuman? Or you want people to become like you? Or you want people to become your followers? Or follow Rama and Sita?

134 Is there anything in this world that religious people are afraid of? Saints are afraid of? Rich people afraid of? Powerful people afraid of?
135 Why is God and religion becoming a mere showcase item of rich people?
136 Whenever I come late to office my boss comes early and every time I’m early, he is late.  Why does this always happen?
137 My behavior towards others is excellent. I’m kind, non-violent, forgiving, polite but very harsh, unforgiving and self destructive on myself.  How do I change this?
138 Why do good guys always end up last?
139 What is the biggest pain in life?
140 What are the birth rights of a human being?

Sadak par baitha beedi phonkne wala vyadkti ke sewadaar, laal-bati ki gaadi me bethe me ghom rahe hai… ye kaisa samajik insaaf hai? Doosro ka makan banana wale khud jhuggi me rehte hai… ye kaisa samajik insaaf hai?


Is silence of mind meditation? How does one silences his mind? Is it possible to silence someone else's wavering mind?

143 Why should I have purpose in life? Are there any purposes or mission of other natural events/processes like rain, sunrise, sunset, cycles of weather, day and night?
144 Which is bigger - Seva (Service) Or Prem (Love). One can do do seva without love but one cannot love without doing seva. Is that not right?
145 If someone near to you is dying, what should one do for the dying person? What does the dying person want? what words should one say?
146 What words can comfort mother whose child is dying?
147 Why do good people always suffer?
148 What is the best way to deal with insensitive and rude people?
149 What are the advantages and disadvantages of being an atheist as compared to being a believer?
150 If heart and Brain, logic and emotion are in conflict, whom should I listen to, who's decision will be more dharmic or beneficial in long run?
156 I repeat my mistakes, How does that happen? How to correct that?
157 How to forgive yourself?
158 What does a man wants? What does a woman wants?
159 How can one develop/deepen his intuitiveness?
160 I have tried various businesses, but all of them have failed miserably. Please advise how to earn money, How to be a successful business man?
161 What does "Living in the Present" means?
161 A sadhu said, "Do not ask anything from God. It is selfishness. Who are you to decide, He knows what you need and deserve". My friend if I do not ask God, whom else can I ask? Why are you making "prayers for wishes" sound bad, brother! If I love Him, He loves me, why can I not ask for things. Why not? What do you think?
162 What is the most optimistic thing about humanity?
163 What is the biggest surprise of life?
164 Curious to know about Lord Sri Anjaneya – mother of Sri Hanuman, her curse and related stories? Is anyone aware?
165 Does anyone know which Ramayna Character is re-incarnation of Goddess MahaKali?
166 To copy others is kill ourselves, then why do we all pray to become like Ram and Krishna?
167 I have no interest in politics. Neither do I support any political party. Does that takes away my right to comment or reflect on current affairs or political developments?

Dear Diligent Reader,

These questions came to my mind between 2006-2009. I am still curious. I do not have answers to many many listed here. Sometimes we blindly believe that is told to us or what is said in old books but real situations or decisions can be different. I'd be happy to hear from you, if you have lived a similar situation, went through a similar dilemma and know what could be the right answer, please use web-form below to send me your thoughts. I may reply you, often on the same day! :) Thank you.

I am sorry if my questions appear dangerous, outrageous, controversial and/or disturbing but are they false?  I do not want to appall you or raise your voice or blood pressure.  Some of them are trouble areas, often ignored aspects but they are no weapon of mass destruction just curiosities and concerns of a common man.  Your answers or opinions may well be equally dangerous, outrageous, controversial and/or disturbing but not false. Please do not send me your abuse attacks. Kuch log zamane me, bahut nadaan hote hai, waha lejaate hai kashti, jahan toofan hote hai.

I must clearly point out here that I am no Pseudo Guru or Philosopher: I also do not have such intentions. Many of you diligent readers of my website are more learned and better informed than me. Many times your emails have given me something new to learn. It is this very reason that I keep my site up and running, for the same reason I am continuing. Curiosities are part of all of us as humans. Questions, Answers, Art, Literature are all part of us, thoughts, ideas innovations come are the flowers, fruits, leaves and branches which come on a tree. If your mind tree has something positive to share with me, please feel free write in. Okay?

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Bulla ki jaana maen koun ?

Na maen momin vich maseet aan
Na maen vich kufar diyan reet aan
Na maen paakaan vich paleet aan
Na maen moosa na pharaun.

Bulleh! ki jaana maen kaun

Na maen andar ved kitaab aan,
Na vich bhangaan na sharaab aan
Na vich rindaan masat kharaab aan
Na vich jaagan na vich saun.

Bulleh! ki jaana maen kaun.

Na vich shaadi na ghamnaaki
Na maen vich paleeti paaki
Na maen aabi na maen khaki
Na maen aatish na maen paun

Bulleh!, ki jaana maen kaun

Na maen arabi na lahori
Na maen hindi shehar nagauri
Na hindu na turak peshawri
Na maen rehnda vich nadaun

Bulla, ki jaana maen kaun

Na maen bheth mazhab da paaya
Ne maen aadam havva jaaya
Na maen apna naam dharaaya
Na vich baitthan na vich bhaun

Bulleh , ki jaana maen kaun

Avval aakhir aap nu jaana
Na koi dooja hor pehchaana
Maethon hor na koi siyaana
Bulla! ooh khadda hai kaun

Bulla, ki jaana maen kaun
Not a believer inside the mosque, am I
Nor a pagan disciple of false rites
Not the pure amongst the impure
Neither Moses, nor the Pharoh

Bulleh! to me, I am not known

Not in the holy Vedas, am I
Nor in opium, neither in wine
Not in the drunkard`s craze
Niether awake, nor in a sleeping daze

Bulleh! to me, I am not known

In happiness nor in sorrow, am I
Neither clean, nor a filthy mire
Not from water, nor from earth
Neither fire, nor from air, is my birth

Bulleh! to me, I am not known

Not an Arab, nor Lahori
Neither Hindi, nor Nagauri
Hindu, Turk (Muslim), nor Peshawari
Nor do I live in Nadaun

Bulleh! to me, I am not known

Secrets of religion, I have not known
From Adam and Eve, I am not born
I am not the name I assume
Not in stillness, nor on the move

Bulleh! to me, I am not known

I am the first, I am the last
None other, have I ever known
I am the wisest of them all
Bulleh! do I stand alone?

Bulleh! to me, I am not known

Why Questions? Questions helps a listener understand better. Questions can help you get detail and elaboration. Questions can direct an attention to a concern. Questions are also a polite way of demanding something. Questions can help you check things. Questions can help you address a situation you do not know how to handle. Questions can help you request alternatives and assess possibilities. Questions can help you modify your position or assessment of a situation. Questions are the basis of thinking. (Source: "How to have a Beautiful Mind")




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